Life of a Mum

Pre Christmas declutter/clean

We’ve had a massive declutter/clear out of most of our rooms/cupboards etc. With Christmas and Dorothea’s birthday coming up soon; we are bound to have an influx of new toys, clothes and home bits and bobs.

I thought I’d share our tips and tricks for decluttering, sorting and disposing of (don’t worry- it’s eco friendly where possible).

Hallway:

  • Full clean inc carpet freshen (see lounge)
  • Buy some gorgeous festive blooms from Bloom and Wild use this link for £10 off (they even do make your own wreath kits if you’re feeling creative)
  • Treat yourself to a fresh new vase Cox and Cox here’s a link to £20 off

Kids room:

  • Sort of clothes into piles
    Too big/wrong season- pack away
    Fits/correct season- check if needs mending, if not fold/hang
    Too small/unloved/damaged
  • Great condition;sell on- try Facebook marketplace or eBay if you have time.
  • Great condition; no time- sell through Peachy and Birdie or Kidclo
  • Good used condition; charity shop donation or hand me down to those in need.
  • Damaged; can it be fixed? (Fix and as above) cut into rags for crafting/upcycle/dispose of
  • Rearrange furniture if wanted; full clean.
  • Tidy/organise toys as per playroom
  • Sort other drawers/storage.
    Only keep what’s needed/recently used.
    Dispose of out of date/old meds or toiletries
    Buy/use drawer dividers to separate socks/vests/pants etc.
    Refold clothes so neat and emery’s to find
    Rehang clothes in sections so easy to find
    Chuck soft toys in the wash for a freshen
  • Add a cute festive touch to their room; such as this ‘shelfie’ or some novelty lights.

Play room:

If your play room if anything like ours then it’s usually a warzone! If we didn’t sort this pre Christmas it would be a nightmare.

  • Sort toys into piles
    keep- make sure they are clean and all pieces present.
    sell- outgrown/unloved toys in great condition. I find Facebook marketplace works.
    donate- outgrown/unloved toys in usable condition. Try local community groups or fb groups.
    broken, missing parts etc. (If can not be recycled, fixed or used for crafting- dispose of)
  • Buy some storage if needed to help organisation of small toys. We got the units from ikea and small wooden boxes (which I painted) from eBay.
  • Clean original storage and toys.
  • Get the kids to be part of it; Dot loves to sort out things to give you a baby that doesn’t have much’.

Mum/Dads room:

  • Rearrange furniture if wanted; full clean.
  • Sort of clothes into piles
    wrong season- pack away
    Fits/correct season- check if needs mending, if not fold/hang
    Too small/big/unloved/damaged
  • Fix/stain remove any damages- then sort as below or upcycle/craft/dispose of
  • Great condition- sell on; I love to use Thrift plus as means you donate to charity and also gain credit to re-spend (or get John Lewis vouchers) Link for £5 credit
  • Great condition; if you are local to Market Harborough you can sell on at The Attic (ladies clothes/shoes/accessories only)
  • Used but wearable- donate to charity or local organisations.
  • Sort drawers and clean out. Again if not needed/ used – sell/donate/throwaway.
  • Sort makeup/toiletries- throw away out of date, donate unused/unwanted (shelters/food bank), sort using for fresh organisation.
  • Buy a festive scent diffuser I love the Marmalade home fragrance if you are local you can buy these from In heaven at home

Kitchen:

  • Decant one cupboard at a time
    Sort contents; if not used, out of date or broken- then throw away/donate as appropriate. Try Olio to donate food or download the app.
    Clean cupboard out
    Refill cupboard- buy new ways of organising if helps
  • Fridge- empty, clean out and refill
  • Clean top of cupboards and fridge freezer
  • Clean oven
  • Clean dishwasher
  • Clean washing machine
  • Sort drawers; if not used, out of date or broken throw away/donate
  • Buy/fetch out festive tea towels
  • Buy/fetch out festive accessories
  • Buy a nice new treat for an eco- friendlier Christmas- our favourite gadget is a soda stream- and means you won’t get through tonnes of plastic bottles this festive season Soda Stream- 10% off here

Lounge:

  • Use a carpet freshener before hoovering (I make my own by filling a jar with baking soda and adding 8 drops of essential oils)
  • Full clean; including sofa – if you have leather I love Wheelers leather cleaner
  • Sort out drawers/storage- again if not needed/ used – sell/donate/throwaway.
  • Any old dvds/cds lying around? Maybe donate to Nothing new by Ruthie Ru
  • Buy some festive fragrance- I’m loving wax burners and melts- my favourites are Dragonfly and co. Or Autumn and Belle both local small businesses.

Bathroom:

  • Full clean (I like to de-limescale the taps and shower head too)
  • Clean out cabinet/storage ; anything not used, out of date or broken- then throw away/donate as appropriate (remember food banks/shelters will take unopened toiletries or sanitary products)
  • Reorganise with new boxes and label; i use Topsy Blossom for personalised decals.
  • Buy some new festive hand soap- No 34 boutique has some great novelty ones and eco friendly choices too

Garage/shed/attic:

Oh no it’s the worst place!

But you’re here to dig out the Christmas decs; winter is t the time to do a big sort of this area (too cold- leave that til spring).

But; take a quick look and see if anything easy to get rid of, unused bikes or large toys the kids are too big for??? Get them on Facebook marketplace or donate.

Get your decs out! If you’ve got some new bits you’ll find you won’t use all the old one. But don’t throw away! There’s always families that can’t afford these non essentials ( especially in 2020) so pop them on Facebook marketplace- free to collect.

My favourite cleaning products:

I do like to be as eco friendly as possible; but also have to consider the cost and whether I like the scent.

  • Thieves multipurpose cleaner from Young living great as all natural and can reuse your plastic bottles.
  • Ocean saver has loads of different options for different sprays (plastic free- just reuse old spray bottles) I love their rhubarb spray!
  • If you are local head to Refill Revolution in the Eco Village for great eco cleaning options- or shop online Refill Rev web

Now add Christmas cheer, pour yourself a large Baileys it’s well deserved!

Life of a Mum

Christmas Gift Guide

I’ve been busy looking for gifts for Dorothea- so thought I’d come up with a gift guide blog. Dot is nearly 4 at Christmas so that’s the age group these would be suitable for.

I’ve based this on the 4 gift rule- Something they want, need, wear, and read. It’s an easy way to teach your children that they can’t have everything they want.

This is a mix of things I’ll probably get her, or things she already has and loves that your little ones may love too.

I’ve tried to stick to the more ethical/eco brands or items from small businesses. Hope you enjoy.

Want- they’ve probably asked for similar

The perfect pram.

The Neo Vario from Bayer design is a Combi pram- so easily converts to a pushchair; it can also be set up child facing or world facing. Dorothea loves the swivel wheels, meaning it’s easy to manoeuvre and great to run with. You little one won’t be disappointed with this beauty

Playset of your favourite book

Dorothea loves ‘we are going on a bear hunt’ so she adores this linked play set from Small Eco steps – it’s a great way to make a story last longer. Other story playsets are available. Use ‘ivfninja’ for discount.

Rope doll basket

Dorothea adores her babies- but doesn’t have anything like this- it’s such a reasonable price too.

https://www.nordicstork.com/collections/imaginative-play/products/rope-doll-basket

Need- these are my must haves for 3-4 year olds

Peg Doll

We love our Peg Dolls from Little Rainbow Play they can be made to order; so to look like your family, or your little ones favourite characters. Small enough to pop in your bag to amuse them at dinner, but a good chunky size for small hands. Great to support a small business too.

Balance board

A great investment is a Balance board- wonderful for all sorts of play. Dot loves hers to rock on, as a slide, or to grab a blanket and chill out on it.

Use ‘ivfninja’ for 10% discount Capikooa shop

Dorotheas favourite Doll

Dot loves her dolls- this is one of our faves. Dinkum dolls come in a diverse range of skin tones- you can also buy cute clothes and accessories. This would make a fab gift for any little one.

https://www.babyandthegang.co.uk/collections/dolls/products/olli-ella-dinkum-doll-sprout

Wear- our go-tos for an awesome wardrobe

Pigeon Organics

We love Pigeon Organics year after year they are one of our favourite brands. They wash and wear really well and the classic designs and fabrics will never go out of fashion.

Buy preloved

You can’t go wrong with good quality preloved; you get more for your money and you get to be smug for shunning fast fashion. I love preloved, as it means I save on half of Dots wardrobe, meaning I can splurge on new items from the brands I love.

My favourites are Peachy & Birdie and Kidclo give them a try.

Frugi at Small Eco Steps

We love Frugi’s values and always adore mixing up their bright colours and funky prints! For Christmas or parties their skater dresses are always a winner. Shop at Small Eco Steps and use ‘ivfninja’ for discount.

Shoes from Colourful Soles

Don’t worry grandparents; you can grab a voucher so they can go for a fitting. Colourful Soles (based in Lutterworth) stock a wonderful range of brands and styles; we rarely leave the shop with just one pair. The experience for your little one is also just awesome; a colourful shop with toys and Peppa Pig on repeat- no stress here!

Read- our favourite books

Books by Joanna Hutchinson

If you love the rhymy style of Julia Donaldson with colourful and cute illustrations- then these are the books for you. Your little one will love the cute characters, such as Hettie the Yeti, and also love guessing the rhyming word. The tales are perfect for true story lovers- as talk about other favourite stories, and are a great length for bedtime. Books by Joanne Hutchinson

Personalised Christmas book

We love this stunning book from Personalised book shop – it has so many cute touches- you can make the character look just like your little one, add a photo and a message too. Use MMMAIVF20 for discount.

Usbourne Christmas books

Every year some of our favourite Christmas books are from Usborne books- this year is no different. Great story’s, activity books and sticker books Katrina’s reading corner is my distributor- mention ‘ivf ninja’ for discount.

I’d love to know if you chose my recommendations- please drop a comment below or tag me on Instagram @ivf.ninja